Abby Moss

It's all about surrendering control.

Sex experts agree that exploring queer porn can have major benefits, no matter your gender or sexual orientation.

"Even if you wanted to take control, you’re totally helpless. I know a lot of guys enjoy the element of feeling insignificant."

"There’s something quite freeing about being able to do this with a partner. It’s a way of letting go of shame."

It's less of a relationship style and more of a philosophy about how we interact with the people we love.

“There’s that story about how monks would immaculately clean every pebble on a path. I’d do that, happily, if Mistress asked me to.”

"You don't need loads of expensive gear or accessories. All you need is underwear."

Sex experts took us inside the world of medical fetishism, or medfet.

"There's ... the masochistic thrill of not being able to get off.”