The 23 Best Sex Toys for Men in 2026, According to Sex Writers

Gone are the days of sitting on your digits to numb them enough for an authentic-feeling hand job. Nowadays, the best sex toys for men — specifically masturbators, cock rings and prostate massagers — take all the hard work out of the pursuit of self-pleasure. But it seems some of you still need convincing when it comes to accepting the help of orgasmic gadgetry.

Research by Ohdoki revealed that just 40% of men admit to having never used a sex toy, and 51% say they would only ever use a sex toy with a a partner. This figure is certainly progress, proving that we’re finally starting to move away from the idea that sex tech is a mediocre replacement for a human partner, or exclusively reserved for the sex-obsessed. However, we’ve still got a majority to convince — particularly when it comes to knowing how to shop for, and use, sex toys.

Best Sex Toys for Men

• Best Male Masturbator: LELO F2S
• Best Pocket Pussy: Lovehoney Thrust Pro
• Best Oral Sex Toy: Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator
• Best Prostate Massager: LELO Hugo 2 Remote
• Best for Couples: Aneros PSY Adjustable Silicone Prostate Massager
• Best Cock Ring: Iroha SVR+ Cock Ring
• Best Penis Pump: Lovehoney Stamina Penis Pump
  
• Best Penis Extender: Lovehoney Mega Mighty

Ohdoki’s research also shows men aren’t using sex toys because 16% don’t know what products to choose and 19% don’t know how to use them.

Cultural attitudes towards male sexuality also have a big impact on who uses sex toys, notes sex and relationships therapist, and in-house expert at Sextoys.co.uk, Natasha Silverman. ‘There’s still a lot of outdated cultural messaging around masculinity, where male pleasure is assumed to be straightforward and toys are seen as unnecessary — or worse, shameful,’ she says.

‘Some people equate male sex toys with singledom or with porn addiction, when in fact they can be part of a healthy, well-rounded sex life. Unlike vibrators, which are often framed as “empowering” for women, male toys are still rarely talked about in a positive, normalising way. That silence breeds stigma and misunderstanding.’

In case you need convincing, though, there are lots of positives that come from experimenting with sex toys — even if you're not sure you've chosen the ‘right’ one.

‘Male sex toys can be a powerful tool for enhancing sexual wellness, confidence, and pleasure,’ explains Silverman. ‘They can support erectile function or recovery from performance anxiety or medical issues.’

So here’s a logical place to start: our list of the best sex tech of 2026, so you’re not left feeling frustrated, confused and/or sore. Keep reading for our edit, plus a reminder of more benefits of toy play, and a run-down of the common types.

Types of Male Sex Toys

We won’t judge you for not knowing your P-spot probe from your stroker because, in recent years, we’ve been inundated with new faces launching unique takes on the classics, or totally fresh styles in the sex toy realm. So, let’s take it back to the basics, with a quick outline of the various toy types available to men and people with penises.

Male Stroker

Male strokers, or sleeves, are sex toys designed to be penetrated. They augment traditional hand-to-penis masturbation and are often lined with ribs, dips or tight canals to stimulate the outside of your member. Being manual toys, you decide on the speed and intensity of the action by moving the sleeve up and down. This makes them one of the least intimidating sex toys, so they're ideal for beginners.

Male Masturbator

Again, male masturbators are penetrative, canal-shaped toys, except they also vibrate, shake and change temperature. Essentially, they do a lot of the work for you, with your role limited to working the control panel. ‘These toys mimic the feeling of partnered or oral sex and have multiple ways to explore unique sensations from vibrations, temperature and texture,’ explains Adam Lewis, founder of Hot Octopuss.

Pocket Pussies and Realistic Vaginas

Rather unsurprisingly, these are strokers designed to look a little more like the real thing, with openings moulded to mimic human vaginas, arseholes or mouths. Choose from a handheld pocket pussy, a realistic torso, a Fleshlight, or go all out and treat yourself to a RealDoll. So, whether you’re newly single, playing the long-distance game or simply missing human interaction, consider this toy type the answer.

Oral Sex Toys

You may have heard of the Rose: the clitoral suction stimulator fascinating females and vulva owners for its speedy orgasm-inducing powers. The teaser is also classed as an oral sex toy, delivering sensations somewhat similar to those felt during traditional cunnilingus.

But what was once exclusively reserved for vulva-owners is now an option for penis-havers too. Thanks to a heady combination of silicone ridges, textured nubs and pulsating vibrations, oral sex toys are the next best thing to a real-life orifice and will blow you like a pro — especially once dosed with water-based lube.

Prostate Massagers and Butt Plugs

For those tempted to explore their back door, prostate massagers are either single probes or U-shaped playthings designed to hit your hidden P-spot with ease. That’s because prostate ‘milking’ can bring on bigger, bolder climaxes. Butt plugs or anal beads play a similar role but come up a little shorter, stimulating the many (thousands) of nerve endings up your back passage.

Couples' Sex Toys

Sex toys are a great addition to your partnered play, working to amplify sensations or provide totally new ones. Plus, they may also boost your chances of a shared orgasm.Your options include vibrators, suction stimulators, cock rings, and C-shaped vibes that sit inside the vagina and remote-controlled options that allow you to experiment with Power Play — while other types of male sex toys, like penis pumps, can be used to contribute to partnered sex.

Cock Rings

For chaps who hanker after extra staying power, a cock ring can help firm things up by restricting blood flow back down the penis. ‘These are designed to enhance erections and prolong play,’ Lewis explains. ‘They come in all different shapes and sizes, and some even allow coverage over the testicles.’If you’re enjoying partnered sex, we suggest shopping for vibrating rings adorned with added clitoral/perineum stimulation nubs to boost your chances of a mutual orgasm.

Penis Pumps

Essentially, penis pumps are pint-sized vacuums designed to temporarily increase the size of your manhood using the power of hydraulics. While these are more a sexual aid than a toy, some find the sucking and pulling sensations to be rather enjoyable.

Penis Extenders

If you’re self-conscious about the length of your penis (although, as we’ve said before, size is secondary to skill), you can now buy a variety of penis extenders to enhance the look and feel of your member. Your options range from extension sleeves to traction devices, and while they may not necessarily sit in the sex toy camp, they can also provide pleasure for both the wearer and the eventual receiver.

What to Consider

Okay, we can see how those options could be overwhelming for anyone looking to make a crucial please purchase — let alone someone buying sex toys for the first time. If that’s left you with more questions about what kind of male sex toy is best for you, we spoke to Natasha Silverman and Adam Lewis to answer your questions.

Stimulation

‘Start with what you’re curious about — whether it’s a stroker, a prostate massager, or something hands-free,’ Silverman suggests. ‘Think about the kind of sensation you enjoy: internal, external, rhythmic, suction, vibration.’

Those who enjoy penetration should consider a stroker, Lewis recommends. ‘If you want to explore temperature play, then a toy with warming features might be essential,’ he adds.

Usability

Once you’ve established whether you prefer manual stroking, vibrating stimulation, prostate play or shared vibes, think about what scenario you’ll be using the toy in, and how you want it to work.

‘When will I need to use this toy?’ Lewis recommends thinking about. ‘Do you want something travel-friendly or more luxurious for solo sessions at home?’

Some toys are specifically designed for those with mobility problems, or those experiencing erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. If you want to use something hands-free, look for sex toys that are remote or app-controlled.

Meanwhile, if you want to use a toy with a partner, look for couple-friendly designs that can keep you both satisfied while using the toy together, Lewis suggests.

Quality

We will hammer this point until the end of time: quality is an absolute essential when it comes to buying sex toys, to make sure the product is body-safe.

‘Choose body-safe materials like silicone, and avoid anything that looks gimmicky or poorly made,’ Silverman advises. ABS plastic, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass are also great options for body-safe materials. If you're not sure whether something is legit, you can always turn to other shoppers' experiences to make extra sure.

‘You might want to read reviews or shop from reputable brands that specialise in men’s pleasure, rather than just browsing a novelty shop,’ Silverman notes. ‘And don’t be afraid to ask questions — many sex-positive shops offer advice without judgment.’

You'll also want to consider factors like battery power, if it's rechargeable, and if it can be connected to an app to control from a distance.

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