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The 14 Best Male Masturbators and Strokers, According to Sex Writers
Upgrade your humble hand job

We’re not saying there’s anything wrong with manual masturbation. After all, we’ve been doing it for centuries, often without complaint. A recent study by University College London suggests that self-gratification has a long evolutionary history amongst primates, and was most likely present in the common ancestor of all monkeys and apes.
However, the sex tech revolution that began in the 1960s has led to a boom in automated sex toys and, specifically, male masturbators. These penetrative playthings, sometimes designed to mimic the female vagina, aim to stimulate your entire length and, essentially, take all the hard work out of a hand or blow job.
Best Male Masturbators
‘Male masturbators offer far more than just solo pleasure and, thanks to evolving tech, are becoming just as exciting as toys designed for vulva/vaginas,’ says Adam Lewis, cofounder at sex tech brand Hot Octopuss.
‘These toys are also tools for exploration, helping you not only build confidence but also a connection to your body. They invite us to discover new sensations.’
Sold? Great, because below we’ve asked experts in the field to get you up to speed, sharing details on the various types of male masturbators and their top tips for beginners. Plus, our sex writer has scoured the shelves to find the very best on the market right now.
Benefits of Male Masturbators
If you're not a total fan of the idea of chafing your hands, or finding an enthusiastic partner every time you want to get off, enter: the male masturbator. These handy gadgets can help you rest your digits during solo sex sessions, and enhance partnered sex too, says Lewis.
‘For those who experience unreliable erections or performance anxiety, male masturbators offer the opportunity to enjoy pleasure on their own terms, without pressure or expectation to perform,’ he says. ‘Many designs also lend themselves to partnered play, helping couples reconnect and explore intimacy together in ways that don't rely on performance.
‘Beyond pleasure, they also have an important role in accessibility, providing a means of sexual satisfaction for individuals with difficulties around mobility, such as grip strength or other physical access needs.’
What to Consider
There are a million and one ways to masturbate manually, but we’re sure you’ve figured out your routine by now. Once you’ve identified how you like to stroke your schlong, sexologist and sex expert at sextoys.co.uk, Gigi Engle, advises you to think about what you want from a masturbator. 'If you're looking for something really realistic, go for something like a fleshlight,' she says. 'If you want something a little more tame and refined, try something like The One Suction Stroker.'
How the product is made should also be taken into account when you’re buying a new piece of sex tech. 'When you're looking for a toy be sure it's made from body-safe silicone,' Engle notes. 'It can also be fun to try toys that have vibrating or thrusting sensations. It all depends on the experience you're looking for.'
Type
‘Male masturbators come in a wide variety of shapes, styles and speeds, each offering a different experience depending on preference, purpose and even a desired outcome,’ says Lewis. To help you on your sex toy buying journey, here's a rundown of your options:
Strokers
Simply put, strokers are the non-vibrating variety of penis sleeves, designed to be manually moved up and down while an array of nubs, ribs and dips stimulate your shaft. Arguably, they are one of the most beginner-friendly sex toy styles and are fairly kind to your bank account. ‘These toys are perfect for those who enjoy consistent, hands-free pleasure and want to experience something a little different and more explorative,’ Lewis explains.
Pocket Pussies and Realistic Vaginas
The clue is in the name, but these manual strokers have been designed to give your imagination a well-deserved break. Again, they come lined with an array of abrasive add-ons, like raised nubs, ripples and perfectly-placed air pockets to somewhat replicate real vaginas.
You might have also heard these referred to as ‘Fleshlights,’ but that title should be reserved for offerings from the brand itself. The insides of these (totally indiscreet, unless you often leave massive torches laying on your bedside) penis pleasers are often modelled after the anatomy of famous porn stars.
Male Masturbators
These are penetrative penis covers with added bells and whistles, otherwise known as vibrating, shaking (and sometimes warming) motors. However, this name is often used to — in our opinion, too broadly — group together all male sex toys, the logic being that all styles (external vibrators, cock rings, prostate massagers etc.) help to improve your masturbation game.
How We Selected
We're going to request that you let your imagination run wild here because explaining the exact sex position in which we 'beat the meat' is just not something we're going to do.
But for the sake of transparency, we will admit to reading hundreds, if not thousands, of reviews to see what (satisfied) shoppers had to say. We then called in a range of strokers, pocket pussies and motorised masturbators to personally test ourselves.
Our volunteers got one teaser each and were asked to give it a thorough examination before getting down to business. Then came the final hurdle: rating it 'yay' or ' nay,' based on whether they'd recommend it to a mate.

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