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The 14 Best Male Masturbators and Strokers, According to Sex Writers

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We’re not saying there’s anything wrong with manual masturbation. After all, we’ve been doing it for centuries, often without complaint. A recent study by University College London suggests that self-gratification has a long evolutionary history amongst primates, and was most likely present in the common ancestor of all monkeys and apes.

However, the sex tech revolution that began in the 1960s has led to a boom in automated sex toys and, specifically, male masturbators. These penetrative playthings, sometimes designed to mimic the female vagina, aim to stimulate your entire length and, essentially, take all the hard work out of a hand or blow job.

Best Male Masturbators

‘Male masturbators offer far more than just solo pleasure and, thanks to evolving tech, are becoming just as exciting as toys designed for vulva/vaginas,’ says Adam Lewis, cofounder at sex tech brand Hot Octopuss.

‘These toys are also tools for exploration, helping you not only build confidence but also a connection to your body. They invite us to discover new sensations.’

Sold? Great, because below we’ve asked experts in the field to get you up to speed, sharing details on the various types of male masturbators and their top tips for beginners. Plus, our sex writer has scoured the shelves to find the very best on the market right now.

Benefits of Male Masturbators

If you're not a total fan of the idea of chafing your hands, or finding an enthusiastic partner every time you want to get off, enter: the male masturbator. These handy gadgets can help you rest your digits during solo sex sessions, and enhance partnered sex too, says Lewis.

‘For those who experience unreliable erections or performance anxiety, male masturbators offer the opportunity to enjoy pleasure on their own terms, without pressure or expectation to perform,’ he says. ‘Many designs also lend themselves to partnered play, helping couples reconnect and explore intimacy together in ways that don't rely on performance.

‘Beyond pleasure, they also have an important role in accessibility, providing a means of sexual satisfaction for individuals with difficulties around mobility, such as grip strength or other physical access needs.’

What to Consider

There are a million and one ways to masturbate manually, but we’re sure you’ve figured out your routine by now. Once you’ve identified how you like to stroke your schlong, sexologist and sex expert at sextoys.co.uk, Gigi Engle, advises you to think about what you want from a masturbator. 'If you're looking for something really realistic, go for something like a fleshlight,' she says. 'If you want something a little more tame and refined, try something like The One Suction Stroker.'

How the product is made should also be taken into account when you’re buying a new piece of sex tech. 'When you're looking for a toy be sure it's made from body-safe silicone,' Engle notes. 'It can also be fun to try toys that have vibrating or thrusting sensations. It all depends on the experience you're looking for.'

Type

‘Male masturbators come in a wide variety of shapes, styles and speeds, each offering a different experience depending on preference, purpose and even a desired outcome,’ says Lewis. To help you on your sex toy buying journey, here's a rundown of your options:

Strokers

Simply put, strokers are the non-vibrating variety of penis sleeves, designed to be manually moved up and down while an array of nubs, ribs and dips stimulate your shaft. Arguably, they are one of the most beginner-friendly sex toy styles and are fairly kind to your bank account. ‘These toys are perfect for those who enjoy consistent, hands-free pleasure and want to experience something a little different and more explorative,’ Lewis explains.

Pocket Pussies and Realistic Vaginas

The clue is in the name, but these manual strokers have been designed to give your imagination a well-deserved break. Again, they come lined with an array of abrasive add-ons, like raised nubs, ripples and perfectly-placed air pockets to somewhat replicate real vaginas.

You might have also heard these referred to as ‘Fleshlights,’ but that title should be reserved for offerings from the brand itself. The insides of these (totally indiscreet, unless you often leave massive torches laying on your bedside) penis pleasers are often modelled after the anatomy of famous porn stars.

Male Masturbators

These are penetrative penis covers with added bells and whistles, otherwise known as vibrating, shaking (and sometimes warming) motors. However, this name is often used to — in our opinion, too broadly — group together all male sex toys, the logic being that all styles (external vibrators, cock rings, prostate massagers etc.) help to improve your masturbation game.

How We Selected

We're going to request that you let your imagination run wild here because explaining the exact sex position in which we 'beat the meat' is just not something we're going to do.

But for the sake of transparency, we will admit to reading hundreds, if not thousands, of reviews to see what (satisfied) shoppers had to say. We then called in a range of strokers, pocket pussies and motorised masturbators to personally test ourselves.

Our volunteers got one teaser each and were asked to give it a thorough examination before getting down to business. Then came the final hurdle: rating it 'yay' or ' nay,' based on whether they'd recommend it to a mate.

Best for Stamina Control

LELO F2S

F2S

Pros

  • Tons of ways to play — for pleasure or for training
  • App unlocks an extra six vibration modes

Cons

  • Very techy, it might take you a while to figure it out!

Did you know that premature ejaculation impacts up to 30% of men in the UK? We'd forgive you for not knowing, because no one ever talks about it, but if you orgasm sooner than 5.5 minutes into sexual activity, and either you or your partner is dissatisfied with it, there are things you can do to help.

Take this LELO masturbator for example — as well as delivering 14 vibration settings for pleasure purposes only, it can be synced with the LELO app to create a personalised stamina training programme.

Using AI sensors in the toy, the vibrations sync to your movements to elongate your pleasure, or do a guided kegel exercise to make sure you get off for longer.

Features at a Glance

TypeMasturbator with stamina training ability
In the boxToy, warranty card, charging cable, storage pouch, instruction manual
MaterialSilicone, ABS plastic
Length4.33 inches with 1.33 insertable
Circumference3.23 inches
PowerRechargeable
WaterproofYes
Best Automatic Male Masturbator

Bellesa UltraBlow

UltraBlow
Credit: Bellesa

Pros

  • Stretchy insides for girthier packages

Cons

  • An investment (but worth it)
  • Not the most subtle addition to your bedside table
  • Tricky to clean

Sometimes you just want a damn good blow job, and this simulator masturbator has perfected the formula.

As it's designed to mimic the real thing, make sure you slather your member in plenty of water-based lube before switching between its eight thrusting and rotating settings using the easy navigation buttons.

The geniuses at Bellesa have, of course, made this hands-free, so all you have to do is watch through the transparent cylinder as your shaft is whirled, twirled and sucked to orgasm.

Features at a Glance

TypeAutomatic blowjob simulator
In the boxUltrablow and charger
MaterialPlastic and silicone
Length10.8 inches
Diameter3 inches
PowerRechargeable
WaterproofSplashproof
Compatible lubeWater-based
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Best All-Rounder

TENGA Flip Zero EV

Flip Zero EV

Pros

  • One-way air valve equals serious suction
  • Inconsistent textured sleeve makes for unpredictable teasing
  • Five pulsing patterns: Low, High, Pulse, Swap and Random

Cons

  • Just 40 minutes of play per charge

Let's get you up to speed: there are nine types of masturbators in the Flip family, including the Flip Zero, the Flip Zero Gravity EV and the new Flip Orb, available in Sunset Orange or Ocean Blue.

The Flip Zero EV is a flip phone-style masturbator that, when closed, engulfs your entire penis, before using an intense combination of internal ribs, dips, orbs, vibration and (optional) pressure pads to get you off. In fact, TENGA claims the Flip series houses its 'most intricate internal details yet,' resulting in, arguably, the most intense sensations yet.

The ergonomic hourglass shape makes it easy to hold with one hand, while guiding it up and down the length of your member — although it's also partner play-friendly, so suggest your other half puts in a shift too.

Back to that flip function: the fact this opens wide allows for incredibly easy cleaning. Simply rinse, wash with warm soapy water and leave to air dry on the stand/storage case (yep, it doubles as both and almost looks like a Bluetooth speaker when stowed).

Features at a Glance

In the boxTransparent drying rack/storage case and USB-charging cable
MaterialSilicone, ABS plastic, thermoplastic elastomer
Length8 inches
Diameter4.7 inches
PowerUSB rechargeable
Waterproof100%
Compatible lubeWater-based
Best Premium Male Masturbator

LELO F1S V3 Pleasure Console

F1S V3 Pleasure Console
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Pros

  • 8 pulsing patterns
  • That Cruise Control feature means it releases a little extra power exactly when you need it
  • Also available in a XL size for wide guys

Cons

  • It's a (sexy) splurge
  • Not for those after authentic, real-feel sensations

Thanks to prostate massagers like the LOKI Wave and the HUGO 2, LELO is beloved by many men and prostate owners. Launched in July of 2024, the LELO F1S V3 may be newer to the brand’s product line-up but it’s already a best-selling male masturbator.

Insert your penis into this stroker, turn it on, and it immediately goes to work stimulating with SenSonic technology — AKA pleasurable pulses that travel down your tool. While you can up the ante by moving this toy up and down, you don’t have to; our testers all agreed that it was pretty damn powerful on its own.

The biggest draw for the LELO FS1 V3, however, is the fact that it is outfitted with AI. Yes, really. Listening and learning what you like, the technology then delivers tailor-made vibrations.

Even better news: this penis stimulator can also be connected to the LELO app, which enables long-distance lovers to control the vibration patterns from afar.

Features at a Glance

In the boxUSB-charging cord, warranty registration card and a detailed instruction manual
MaterialBody-safe silicone and aluminium alloy
Length5.67 inches
Insertable length4.3 inches
Circumference1.57 – 2.36 inches
PowerUSB rechargeable
WaterproofYes
Compatible lubeWater-based
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Best for Temperature Play

Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator

Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator

Pros

  • Easy to clean
  • ‘It actually feels like you’re dick is being sucked,’ says one reviewer

Cons

  • Not as long as other masturbators, but it does cover your tip

Not a fan of the cool sensations inside a regular masturbator? While we'd encourage you to accept sex toys for what they are — they're not a real person, after all — there is a way around that.

Enter: this warming masturbator that's equipped with warming technology that means it heats up to 40 degrees, so it feels as close to a warm mouth as you're going to get for something that isn't attached to a real body.

Here's something a mouth can't do though: vibrate in six patterns and three speeds as you thrust and pull.

Features at a Glance

TypeWarming masturbator
In the boxToy, charger instruction manual
MaterialSilicone
Length3 internal inches
DiameterNot stated
PowerRechargeable
WaterproofSplashproof
Best for Beginners

TENGA Egg Tornado

Egg Tornado

Pros

  • Stretches to accommodate shafts of all lengths and shapes
  • Every egg comes with a 5ml tester of TENGA's Egg Lotion (AKA water-based lube)
  • A lightweight love thing, weighing in at just 54 grams

Cons

  • A gentle touch is required; these tear pretty easily

If you're intrigued by the idea of a male masturbator but are not yet convinced one is worth your hard-earned dolla, start with a TENGA Egg. These single-use masturbation sleeves offer a similar feel-good sensation to other toys in this category without the financial commitment.

To the naked eye, this (in our opinion, cracking) sex toy may look small. But the fact they're made from super-stretchy elastomer means your chosen player should meet your, uh, requirements.

Once in position on the tip of your penis, just wrap your hand around it and stroke up and down. Then ditch once you're done. Granted, this means they're not particularly eco-friendly, but for a once-in-a-while posh wank, they're pretty much perfect — particularly as each is lined with a different pattern of textured nubs. An eggcellent stocking stuffer if you ask us.

Features at a Glance

In the boxStretchy stroker and a 5ml sachet of Egg Lotion
MaterialThermoplastic elastomer (TPE)
Insertable lengthStretches to approximately 7.4 inches
Weight54 grams
WaterproofTechnically yes but this may impact your level of control
Compatible lubeWater-based
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Best for Stamina

Fleshlight Fleshlight X Lovehoney Masterstroke Male Masturbator

Fleshlight X Lovehoney Masterstroke Male Masturbator

Pros

  • Great for mutual masturbation
  • Accommodates girth

Cons

  • On the noisier side as the cap doesn't stay down
  • Have to leave out for a few hours to dry

Fleshlight has become synonymous with male pleasure, so it makes sense that retailer giant Lovehoney would collab with them to make the platonic ideal of a male masturbator.

This one is made from silky soft silicone that feels almost like real skin, which — combined with the textured ribs and adjustable suction function — slowly edge you towards the finish line.

Plus, it's coated in transparent plastic, so you won't have to worry about it when travelling (and you get a good view of whatever's going on down there).

Features at a Glance

In the boxFleshlight
MaterialHard plastic, soft plastic
Length8 inches
Insertable length6 inches
Circumference0.5 inch<
WaterproofSubmersible
Compatible lubeWater-based
Best for Travel

Kiiroo PowerShot Male Vibrator

PowerShot Male Vibrator

Pros

  • Sync it with adult content or VR for added fun
  • Easy to clean

Cons

  • Some say it's a little tight to get it on, but that's if you're girthy!

This tiny tech pal might not look like much, but we promise there's a lot hidden behind those compact walls. It's small in stature, and for good reason — the PowerShot is designed to be pocket sized, so you can chuck it in your travel bag for a weekend away.

But it's one of the most thoughtful travel sex toys we've yet to see, thanks to the fact that its walls can be squeezed for added grip around your schlong, while two independently controlled motors send vibration modes round its entire circumference.

Connect it to the FeelConnect app, and you'll also be able to customise your own vibration modes, or tailor a training regime to improve your stamina.

Features at a Glance

TypeApp-controlled travel masturbator
In the boxToy, case, charging cable, quick start guide
MaterialSilicone, TPE
Length8 x 6.4cm
CircumferenceNot stated
PowerRechargeable
WaterproofSplashproof
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Most Tacticle Male Masturbator

TENGA PUFFY

PUFFY

Pros

  • Great option for sex toy beginners
  • Comes with a drying stand

Cons

  • If pink isn't your colour, it comes in four others

If hand feel is something you care about, Tenga has just the thing for you. Inspired by the pillowy softness of a marshmallow, this masturbator has a squishy exterior, while on the inside it's full of ridges and bumps.

It doesn't have any vibrations, meaning it's ideal for those on their first foray into sex toys, but might be a little too soft for aficionados.

The best news, though, is that it's a subtle addition to your bedside table, so it can easily be mistaken for a travel cup or flask.

Features at a Glance

TypeStroker
In the boxPuffy, Tenga lotion sachet
MaterialElastomer, silicone, PC, ABS, urethane, POM
Length18.5cm
Circumference9.1cm
PowerNo power here
WaterproofYes
Best Guybrator

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux

Pulse Solo Lux

Pros

  • Directs 4,850 rpm of power at your (super sensitive) frenuleum
  • Can be used static or as a stroker
  • Maxes out at 59dB — AKA it's a tad louder than a whisper

Cons

  • Firm and not particularly flexible, so be sure to line with lube

Dubbed the world’s first 'guybrator' when it was launched back in 2013, the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux has more than a decades' experience of making penis-owners come.

Shaped like a taco shell, this penis sleeve is designed to swathe your shaft with sensation. The inside of the toy is lined with little platelets that oscillate (read: move back and forth) against your member. But the best part? Once in place, the Pulse stays on its own which frees up your hands for other things.

To be clear: It isn’t just the inside of this penis toy that vibrates — the outside does, too. In fact, the underbelly of the toy has its own motor, which means the sensations it transmits are intense.

If using this toy with a partner, experiment with positioning the 'bulky' side of the Pulse on the top of your penis and having your partner straddle you. From here, hit the Apple Watch-style remote to cycle through the eight speeds.

Features at a Glance

In the boxUSB-charging cable, a travel pouch, an instruction booklet, two wrist remote controls and your warranty sheet
MaterialSilicone, ABS plastic
Length4.6 inches
Insertable length2.6 inches
Waterproof100%
PowerUSB rechargeable
Compatible lubeWater-based
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Best Discreet Male Masturbator

Arcwave Ion 2 Pleasure Air Male Masturbator

Ion 2 Pleasure Air Male Masturbator

Pros

  • Comes with a discreet storage case that'll have your guest questioning if it's a speaker
  • Bid goodbye to fiddly buttons; the 'Smart Silence' feature means this only works when in contact with the skin
  • One review raved: 'The Ion created a unique feeling that could not be created any other way'

Cons

  • Not so carry-on friendly

Don’t let the fact that the Arcwave Ion looks like a kitchen appliance keep you from exploring the pleasure it can offer. This automatic male masturbator directs (pleasurable) pressure waves to your frenulum — the very sensitive area on the underside of your penis where the head and shaft meet. We like to think of it as the male equivalent of the clitoris.

Described as a pleasure air stroker, once your penis is inside the Ion, the toy uses air stimulation, much in the same way that clitoral suction stimulators do.

In an update on the original toy, Arcwave 2 now comes with three 'autopilot' patterns (low, medium and high), which provides hands-free fun and it alternates between 10 intensity levels.

Other perks of the Arcwave Ion include the fact that it has an open top for easy clean-up, is totally waterproof, which keeps bathtub masturbation on the table, and is lighter-weight than competitor strokers.

Features at a Glance

In the boxUSB-charging cable, storage base for charging and drying, your instruction manual, and a 10ml sample of Arcwave lube
MaterialBody-grade silicone, body-safe ABS plastic
Length6 inches
PowerUSB rechargeable
WaterproofSure thing
Compatible lubeWater-based
Best for a Realistic Sensation

Kiiroo Keon & FeelLacy Stroker

Keon & FeelLacy Stroker

Pros

  • ‘The overall feeling of this toy is the closest I have felt to the real thing,’ says one happy reviewer
  • Your partner can control via the FeelConnect app

Cons

  • Some say it's not tight enough

Ever wished you could really sleep with your favourite adult creator? Don't answer that. Instead, head straight to the checkout for this automatic masturbator, which is not only hands-free, to save your wrists from strains, but has a stroker in it based on adult content creator Lacy Lennon's real anatomy.

Keon is an innovative toy in and of itself, in that it moves up to 230 strokes per minute (more than you can do, we're sure), but Kiiroo has also worked with Lacy to create a mold of her vulva filled with textures ridges and bumps for a totally immersive experience.

If Lacy doesn't float your boat, you can opt for a different adult creator, or buy a Keon with a generic stroker to go inside, as it works with any from the brand.

Features at a Glance

TypeAutomatic masturbator and stroker
In the boxStroker, Keon, charging cable, quick start guide
MaterialABS, PC and silicone
Length22cm
Diameter13cm
PowerRechargeable
WaterproofNo
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Best for Oral-Style Sensations

The One 'Male Rose' Suction Stroker

'Male Rose' Suction Stroker

Pros

  • 15 modes that involve a (delicious) combo of vibrating, thrusting and suction
  • Intuitive three-button control panel
  • Up to 80 minutes of action per charge

Cons

  • That silicone head is a tad sticky, so be generous with the lube

If you’ve wound up on the naughty side of TikTok — or have a partner who has — you’ll have heard of The Rose, a clitoral suction stimulator that has gone viral for its discrete shape and pleasurable technology. And now there is a version for those with penises, known as The Male Rose.

Our sex writer describes it as such: 'Making up this eight-inch toy — which really looks like nothing else but a pleasure accessory — is a jelly-like translucent sleeve, built to bend and bow with your natural movement. On either side, you'll find a (rechargeable) bullet vibrator, intended to spread the motion far and wide.' Read our full review here.

In terms of the sensations it delivers once turned on, she (with some input from her plus-one-with-a-penis) added: 'There's no ignoring it's plastic wrapped around your dong, but with plenty of lube, it does feel like a blowjob from a partner keen to please.' Fun!

Features at a Glance

In the boxUSB-charging cable
MaterialSilicone, ABS plastic
Length8 inches
Diameter3.35 inches
PowerUSB rechargeable
WaterproofNot this one
Compatible lubeWater-based
Best App-Controlled Male Masturbator

Lovense Gush

Gush
Now 50% Off

Pros

  • Add the optional band for increased intensity, tightness and targeted stimulation
  • Adjustable diameter, accomodating dongs of all dimensions

Cons

  • Consider it an investment in your sexual satisfaction

From a sheer design standpoint, the Lovense Gush is a champ. Made from stretchy silicone, this ultra-adjustable penis sleeve can wrap around shafts of all sizes. Designed to be totally hands-free, it will stay on your penis, providing feel-good sensations without requiring any movement from your arm, wrist, or hand at all.

The toy can be paired with the Lovense app, which enables you to switch between the 10 different vibration patterns. Its app capabilities also make it a great option for long-distance relationships.

Whether you’re controlling the toy via your smartphone or your long-distance lover is taking the reins, doing so ensures some serious fun — and even gives you the option of syncing the sensations to music.

Features at a Glance

In the boxUSB-charging cable and (optional) tension band
MaterialSilicone
Length3.5 inches
Inner diameter1.3 inches
Circumference3.7 inches
PowerUSB rechargeable
WaterproofSubmersible
Compatible lubeWater-based
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Tips for Sex Tech Beginners

Because not all of us are well acquainted with techy teasers, Adam co-founder of Hot Octopuss offers his tips.

Be Open-Minded

‘When trying a male masturbator for the first time, the key is to approach it with curiosity rather than expectation, and don't be afraid to visit a shop to see them work in real life before investing,’ Lewis says.

‘Every device feels and functions differently, so take the time to explore what works for your body and what you're curious to try, rather than picking the first one that looks the most expensive.’

When it comes to toys, try using them in different positions (on your back, on your knees, or if you fancy your own private sex show, standing in front of the mirror) and locations. The time of the day, the lube you choose to use and the environment around you may also impact your experience.

Set Up Your Space

Make sure to think about what's going to make you feel comfortable. Consider putting on some background music or Netflix if you're worried about your flatmate or neighbour catching on. And if you're worried about a potential mess, invest in a sex blanket to spare your sheets.

Lube

Whenever you’re having sex — solo or partnered — we recommend you to slather your favourite water-based lube on anything involved (toy, genitals, or fingers). ‘Never forget lubrication, as this makes a big difference to comfort and feel,’ says Lewis.

‘It's always best to use a high-quality water-based or silicone-based lubricant to enhance comfort and glide, but ensure the lubricant you use is compatible with the toys you are using.’

Slow and Steady

This isn’t a race to the finish line, gents, so let’s slow it down for a second and make sure we enjoy the moment. It can be easy to get carried away with the sensations of sex toys, but there's no rush to orgasm.

Start on the lowest setting before working your way up to the highest, to make sure you settle on one that feels good for your body.

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