The 9 Best Sex Pillows You Can Buy in 2025, According to Sex Experts

Made by the same company as our gold medalist, the Liberator Jaz offers up all the same benefits of the Wedge, accessible to those who have to be space-conscious. The compact pillow is made from comfortable-yet-sturdy foam that can lift your hips whether you’re on your belly or back.

Sparks also recommends it for people who are brand spanking new to the world of sex pillows, as ‘it is smaller than your bed pillow but wide enough for most people’s hips,’ she says. It allows you to enjoy the experience of having something other than your own muscles keep you in position, without contorting you into unfamiliar positions, she explains.

‘It also comes in a variety of colours to match your bedroom décor and you can just leave it on the bed,’ adds Sparks. Oh, and the microfibre cover is moisture-resistant and machine washable, so you never have to worry about saturating its innards with your squirt, piss or jizz, and clean-up is always a breeze.

To the naked eye, The Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow looks like any ‘ole bed pillow. However, at the heart of the toy are two separate sex toy patches and pockets.

The larger pocket can hold a larger toy — think: a wand vibrator or a dildo — so you can get on your knees and ride or grind against them hands-free. Meanwhile, the smaller pouch is sized just right for smaller vibrators, like bullet vibrators.

Together, the two pockets work together to make the options endless during your solo or partnered play. You might mount an anal-safe dildo in this pillow, then have a partner add their penis or strap-on into the mix for a little two-person double-penetration.

Or, you might lay on your belly on the pillow, with a vibrator positioned against your external genitals so you can get that feel-good pulse while your partner pounds you from behind. Hot!

Given its shape, even when you’re not using a sex toy, you can use this product like a regular sex pillow to prop up various body parts.

The Wedge with Cuffs puts a kinky twist on the first-place finisher, the Liberator Wedge original. This highly-rated sex pillow comes with a blindfold, and plush cuffs that can be clipped to the wedge within seconds.

The blindfold allows you to dampen your sense of sight (duh), which amplifies the sensation of everything else, Emily Morse, sexologist and host of the Sex With Emily podcast, previously told Men’s Health.

‘All of a sudden, unexpected touches and kisses create waves of pleasure that can turbo-charge arousal. And the anticipation of what’s coming next can be enough to drive you over the edge,’ she says.

Meanwhile, the cuffs can be used to restrain arm or leg movement, depending on whether you clip them to your wrists or ankles. Plusher than other handcuffs on the market, the cuffs included with this sex pillow will restrain you without risk of rubbing your skin raw. Popping your ankles in them, then spreading your knees wide while the pillow supports your back, for example, will give your partner a seriously good look at your its and bits.

As is the case with any kink play, just be sure to talk about desires and limits ahead of time and come up with a safe word. Ok?

The ultimate two-for-one special, the Liberator Black Wedge/ Ramp Combo comes with our top overall sex pillow pick *and* and the Liberator Ramp, which is essentially a sexified gymnastics triangle.

In addition to being able to use the two top-selling pillows separately, ‘the two can fit or be stacked together to adjust to all body types and sex positions,’ says Sparks.

The high-density foam that makes up both pillows may be sturdy, but it’s softer on your knees than most mattresses. As such, rider-on-top positions aren’t just feasible, but fun.

This combo option also ‘comes with a blindfold, handcuffs, and ankle cuffs that easily attach to the pillows,’ says Sparks. ‘It’s a fun entry into some light kink and sensory deprivation.’

Both pieces are covered in a synthetic, water-resistant case that protects the pillow’s innards from moisture and stains. The liners are also machine washable, which makes clean up as easy as unzipping the cases and pressing a few buttons on the washing machine.

Oh, cute! It's a heart! Well, yes, but it's also strategically shaped to make for easier access to certain key areas. The foam interior will hold its shape when you drape yourself over its curves, face-down ass-up style. Get in this position and it won’t just be the pillow that’s heart-shaped — your partner’s eyes will be, too.

You could also have one partner lie on their back so that their booty is aligned with the curves of the pillow. The little outlet between the heart’s humps makes room for their head and cheeks, so they can perform oral without straining their neck.

Because the pillow has both curved sides and an straight one, it can also be humped in a variety of ways. People who need more pinpointed pressure should position the squared edge as close to their hot spots as possible, while those who enjoy more broad pressure and surface area can use the curved sides.

When you’re done making sweet, sweet love to yourself or to your partner(s), just take the micro-velvet case off and throw it in the laundry basket. Yep, it’s machine-washable.

Lazy lovers, this one's for you. Sometimes you're simply not in the mood for exploring the smorgasbord of sex positions out there — and there's no shame in that.

If you're more into lying on your side while you get your socks off, this cushion from Liberator is designed for sexy spooners, as each arch wraps around your shoulders for added comfort. Or, flip it around for lower back or knee support.

It might not raise your hips as much as other sex wedges, but you can be certain it will prevent the possibility for any achey shoulders or necks when the job's well and truly over.

We're sure you can imagine the clutter that comes with being a sex writer — and it's not always as exciting as it sounds.

So we're always pleased by the potential to save space in our room, which is arguably the biggest plus of going for an inflatable wedge rather than a foam one.

This one from Dominix is as versatile as they come. Designed to prevent slipping around while you're thrusting, it also comes with a couple of handy restraint loops in case you feel like adding some kink into the mix.

Best of all, it's easy to inflate and deflate along with your libido, whenever the mood strikes.