SEXPLAIN IT
I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer and ethical manwhore (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I'm very, very open about it). Over the years, I've had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn't just "communicate with your partner," because you know that already. Ask me anything—literally, anything—and I will gladly Sexplain It.
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I Keep Getting Rejected Because of My Small Penis
Should I just give up on dating women?
By Zachary Zane
Mar 20, 2025
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My GF Refuses to Have Sex Sober
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I've Done Everything, but My GF Doesn't Want Sex
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What Do I Do If My GF Wants a Bigger Dick?
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I'm Bisexual but Terrified of Men
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I'm Attracted to Women but Watch Gay & Trans Porn
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My GF's Depression Is Ruining Both Our Lives
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I Can't Get Hard Since My Breakup
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My GF Won't Tell Her Parents We're Dating
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